Give Kate Gosselin a break. She hasn't had sex in over a year.

kate-gosselin-fm.jpgEvery so often The Dish Rag reads or hears something and goes, "How could they possibly know that?" Today is one of those days.

It seems Kate Gosselin may have much more to cry about than being kicked off "Dancing With the Stars."

Stephanie Santoro, the Gosselin's former nanny who (by her own count) had sex with Jon Gosselin nine times, including in the hot tub while his eight kids were asleep upstairs, tells Life & Style that Jon told her that he and Kate hadn't had sex since January of 2009.