'Bachelor' Jake Pavelka, Vienna Girardi's interview: Who broke up with whom?

Former 'Bachelor' Jake Pavelka and Vienna Girardi spilled the dirty deets  during an official interview about their breakup during last night's episode of "The Bachelorette."

 And boy, does their story sound petty and familiar. It's the classic emotional "woman wants intimacy," unemotional "man wants control." Yes, the age-old power struggle.

She says everything started changing in their relationship after the first month. That it was only a relationship when they were on a red carpet. Otherwise, no affection. He just wasn't "there."