'Real Housewives' Danielle Staub hasn't seen her sex tape?

danielle-staub-raw-2.jpg"Real Housewives of New Jersey" star Danielle Staub still claims she hasn't seen -- and did not release -- her own sex tape. (Even though she's holding the camera throughout most of the 75-minute epic sex romp.

And she's still not naming her partner in the sack.

TMZ caught up with Danielle and asked why she didn't stop the release of what she calls her "stolen" sex tape.

"I tried to in the beginning but if you can't beat 'em, join 'em. It wasn't something I would have liked released but it's out there and there's nothing I can do about it."

Except count the money she will make from it.